Here and NOW
#Moremyself
A Journey Of Self Discovery and Chutzpah
Your Life, Reimagined
I encourage and push you to break through old habits, conditioning and crippling beliefs.
I have created a method that is both belief- and behavior-based. It addresses the skill set as well as the mindset. You will discover who you really are and you will attain the chutzpah it requires to live it. Your future self is waiting for you! Let's GO!
My Happily Ever After
Hi, I'm Zelda. I was first married at 19, had three babies and opened my business all before I was 22. I got divorced at 27 and was single mommying it to 3 gorgeous girls and my business for a while. There were moments that felt like I was living my best life. And then there were moments that felt like I was in the pit of death itself. Some mornings I woke up with so much gratitude. Others I'd wake up with so much angst. My Ex Husband and I Co-Parent beautifully, I work my dream job, I meet incredible people and I travel the entire world. I get to live my life on my terms.
So Why the lows? Why couldn't I be happy all the time? I was so uncomfortable with negative emotion. Why? But it wasn't always like this. I grew up in a closed knit Ultra Orthodox home to very devoted Russian immigrant parents. They gave me their world, with all of their heart. Before I could blink, I was 19 and married. My world as I knew it was complete when I had my first daughter at 20. But after 7 years of marriage, 2 more beautiful daughters, a growing business and a divorce later, everything started to make just about zero sense. I had no clue who I was or what I wanted.
I was 27 and was staring at the world with so much angst. All I ever knew was how to be an obedient daughter, devoted wife and loving mother. My children were once my only world, but all I wanted was to run away. My business used to be my precious muse but I couldn't muster up the courage to give it any attention. I was consumed with toxic relationships, partying, sleeping, eating and drinking. On repeat. I started to convince myself that this was freedom. This was liberation. This is the dream.
But in reality, I was completely enslaved to my misery. And I would try to escape from the pain with instant gratifying pleasure. Anything but to face the grim reality I had created. I was hurting. And I couldn't face it. I completely lost track of my power, my life, my light and my blessings. Through many years of therapy, learning, researching, analyzing, soul searching and traveling, I discovered and created #MoreMyself. This was my saving grace. A gift to my soul. I attracted my incredible husband, new ventures and released toxic patterns. And now, I am sharing it with you. Because if I can manifest my dreams, so can you! Let's GO!
Every successful person knows that the future can always be better than the present. And every successful person has a coach that holds them accountable to their goals.
— Zelda Volkov